Saturday, 23 April 2011

Fight : Heart Vs Mind

                                Ek Chhota Sa Lamha Hai Jo Khatam Nahin Hota
                               Main Laakh Jalata Hoon Ye Bhasm Nahin Hota

Its strange what we want to forget in life …we are not able to forget that….Its may be because we are making special efforts to forget it…
In one of the friends episode they showed that by burning all the gifts given by ex…u will be able to start a new life….I don’t think so ….i mean ok u can burn the gifts…but what about the memories….u cant burn or delete them…
So what to do….again my favorite line comes into picture … “ its all about giving time to time “ …. U will get better only with time….from remembering her with every heartbeat…slowly it will go upto  every minute..den day..den month…den year…n after dat if u remember her someday it will just bring a smile to ur face…
It sounds very simple..but it isn’t…bcoz dere will be a constant battle between mind n heart…Everytime u will remember her u will feel like calling/texting / mailing her …dere will be a hope created by heart dat get in touch with her n things will be fine…She might be waiting for ur call… Initially heart will win dese battles n lead u in an endless loop of pain and hope….crazy heart….
This will go on else u realize that its time to ensure that the mind wins the battle and controls the body and the actions..The sooner u realize this the better ….U have to keep reminding urself dat u r doing it for ur own good…for ur friends and family who stood by u in the toughest of times just to see a smile back on ur face…By doing something stupid again u cant let them n urself down…
This whole thing is a continuous process….Dese battles will happen within urself time to time…talk to ur friends during those battles…those who either actually know what happened to u or u think can give an unbiased opinion and who will listen to u carefully n from their experience guide u in the best possible way ….It helps a great deal ..
These battles are very draining but very important…so fight hard …stay focused…win them…n den celebrate the victory with a smile  J

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